< p >< / p >< p >what is a sexual dream < / p >< p >falling in love with the opposite sex in a dream, or even having a sexual relationship, is called a sexual dream. Any man and woman will have sexual dreams when they are sexually mature, and they may also achieve the best part of sex, of course, not every time. Some people may also dream of sexual plots or scenes, but there is no sexual excitement. Although some people have the most exciting part of sex in their sleep, they do not dream of sexual content. Sexual dreams can be complete or fragmented; sometimes it is intuitive and clear, and sometimes it is implied and metaphorical. For women's sexual dreams, direct sexual contact is less, there are more implicit content places, or the places that appear are more implicit sexual dreams. < / p >< p >the occurrence of sexual dream is closely related to the level of sex hormone and sexual psychology. Especially male teenagers are prone to psychological pressure. After puberty, they are facing the strongest sexual ability in their life. < / p >< p >according to a survey of 700 men aged 13 and 16 by Tongji Medical University in Wuhan, it was found that the incidence of sexual dreams among male adolescents was about 19.8%, and there was a significant age difference in the incidence of sexual dreams, which generally increased with age. For example, the incidence of sexual dreams in the 13-year-old group was about 6.7%, increased to 23.7% in the 15-year-old group, and 27.1% in the 16-year-old group. The occurrence of sexual dreams of male teenagers is closely related to spermatorrhea, and no one has ever had a sexual dream for the first time. Spermatorrhea is the main sign of male sexual maturity, which may be an important physiological reason for the production of sexual dreams. The occurrence of sexual dreams may also be influenced by sexual culture. The survey found that the incidence of sexual dreams among boys of the same age in urban areas is significantly higher than that in rural areas. For example, the incidence of sexual dreams in 14-year-old groups is 18.4% in urban areas and 5.6% in rural areas. The reason for this may be related to the fact that the spread of gender-neutral information and sexual culture in rural areas is slower than that in cities. < / p >< p >there are also many women who have sexual dreams, most of which occur in their 30s and 50s. But female sexual dreams are much less frequent each year than male sexual dreams. Women have sex dreams only 3-4 times a year, while men are 2-3 times more likely to have sex dreams. < / p >< p >Modern psychophysiological research holds that sexual dream is a normal sexual psychological and physiological behavior. The generation of sexual dreams is closely related to the level of sex hormones and sexual psychology. During adolescence, boys and girls, or people in a state of 'sexual hunger and thirst', sexual dreams are a self-regulating masturbation phenomenon with high sexual tension. Into the gradually mature boys and girls, sexual physiology and sexual psychology are also gradually mature, will have a kind of admiration for the opposite sex, sometimes produce sexual impulses. < / p >< p >Love is the eternal theme of mankind, and scientists have found that the 'Cupid Arrow', which causes men and women to produce sexual impulses, is essentially hidden in the deep part of the brain-the thalamus. The reason why love is fascinating is that the 'love stimulant' in the thalamus is at work, which is a person's sexual instinct. We study that sexual instinct is the only way for the human race to evolve, and people cannot live without it. According to research by American psychiatric experts Ribots and Klein, this 'love stimulant' for men and women includes dopamine, isoproterenol, endorphin and so on, among which phenylethylamine is the most prominent, which is an exciting substance in the nervous system. This sexual impulse is suppressed by reason in the conscious state, but in the subconscious dream at night, it is not restrained by reason. It takes sexual pleasure as the principle. But this kind of subconscious brain cortex excitates the focus activity, then appears in the dream with the opposite sex kiss, the sexual intercourse behavior illusion. < / p >< p >Sex is very important to people, so it's not surprising that sexual or symbolic images often appear in dreams. Eating men and women are people's basic wishes and needs. But the need for food cannot be met by dreaming. No matter how many delicacies you eat and drink in your dreams and how many delicacies you eliminate, you still wake up hungry. However, sexual needs can be met to a certain extent through dreams, so frequent sexual dreams are of real benefit to people. < / p >< p >the stimulation of sexual desire can be satisfied by dreams, however, this satisfaction has its certain characteristics. Because the impulse of sexual desire can be independent of external objects, which is obviously different from hunger and thirst. So how are sexual impulses satisfied? It is wet dream, in other words, the dreamer has the phenomenon of spontaneous spermatorrhea in the dream. However, what we are talking about here is spermatorrhea, which belongs to the purely physiological category, which can make the dreamer get real satisfaction in the dream. However, this still cannot be separated from the influence of external factors. External factors mainly include: < / p >< p >one is the spiritual factor: 'you have something to think about every day and dream at night.' it is not surprising that young men and women will not fall in love with each other, and which young woman will not be pregnant with spring. If you bring this emotion into your dream, it will lead to sexual dreams. < / p >< p >second, if you are full of essence, you will overflow: young or middle-aged, healthy, unmarried or separated for a long time after marriage, suppressing sexual desire, having a dream of 'sexual intercourse' and waking up with ejaculation. this dream is like water in a bottle, which is a normal physiological phenomenon. < / p >< p >third, think every day and dream at night: when you wake up during the day, get in touch with relatives, friends and colleagues of the opposite sex, talk and laugh, and make out. If you bring this kind of friendly feelings to sleep, coupled with the internal stimulation of human reproductive hormones, sometimes sexual dreams occur. In addition, watching some pornographic films, CDs, videotapes and novels during the day can also induce dreams. For example, some people like to read ghosts and fairy tales, but they are easy to have ghostly sexual dreams. < / p >< p >four is the local stimulation of the reproductive organs: if the bladder is overfilled during sleep, it is often easy for men to turn into sexual stimulation and form sexual dreams; while women wear underwear that are too tight or exercise excessive local friction, it is possible to form inducing factors of dreams; if the pathological changes of the genitourinary organs are stimulated, it is more likely to lead to sexual dreams. < / p >< p >five is sexual hallucination: although 'hallucination' belongs to a kind of psychopathic performance, normal healthy people sometimes have 'hallucinations', especially when the sexual sensory organs are lack of external stimulation. Normal people may also have 'sexual hallucinations'. < / p >< p >as far as adult dreams are concerned, dreams of desire are usually manifested beyond satisfaction, and there are other things that are purely made up by the mind, and the real desire is hidden in those bizarre appearances. If people want to understand these things in the dream, they have to analyze them. < / p >< p >if adults have this kind of childish dream of fulfilling their wishes, it is not necessarily just a response to the urgent needs of the body. Some dreams are caused by some powerful situation, which is obviously the result of psychological stimulation. < / p >< p >for example, in some 'anxious' dreams, dreamers prepare to travel, to see a play, to give a speech, or to visit friends, but in their dreams their expectations are realized in advance. They often dream of arriving at their destination the night before, or in the cinema, or saying goodbye to each other with friends they want to visit. < / p >< p >another example is the so-called 'lazy' dreams. in order to continue to sleep soundly, dreamers dream that they have got up, washed their faces, or are in school, when in fact they are still sleeping in the countryside. Such a dream obviously achieves the dreamer's wish, it enables the dreamer to realize what they should do, but do not want to do, so that the dreamer can achieve their goal of continuing to sleep soundly. < / p >< p >people have learned that the desire to sleep often occupies a certain place in the composition of dreams, and in the case of these dreams, this desire is clearly expressed, and almost all of them become the cause of dreams. From this point of view, people's need for dreams is as important as the need for other major functions of the body. < / p >< p >although sexual dreams are important to people, sexual dreams are not about being naked, kissing, hugging, or being caressed by the opposite sex. < / p >< p >some dreams do not have to have sex on the surface, perhaps it is a scene of innocence, but through symbolizing the meaning of sex. On the other hand, some dreams appear to be sex, but in fact they have nothing to do with sex. This kind of dream cannot be called a sexual dream. Because it is true that a sexual dream is often the satisfaction of sexual desire, but it can also express excitement, excitement, happiness, and being violated, indicating that you communicate with another person, keep in close contact, or that your opinions are distorted, etc., whether it is a sexual dream or not, it all depends on the specific dream. < / p >< p >'I saw the sky general holding a golden spear in his hand, and its hard iron tip seemed to be burning a little. He pierced my heart with this spear several times and finally penetrated my internal organs. When he pulled out his spear, I almost thought he was bleeding out of my intestines, and he made me burn completely in God's love. It was painful, I moaned a few times, but the pain brought so much sweetness that I hardly wanted to lose it. ' < / p >< p >this is a nun's dream. In the nuns' view, suffering is a way to be tested and close to God, so she dreams of suffering. But she didn't realize that the way she suffered in her dreams was similar to sex, and the infinite sweetness she got in pain was similar to the feeling of sex life. < / p >< p >this is obviously a sexual dream, and it is perfectly understandable for the nun to have such a dream: no matter how voluntarily she lives a life of abstinence, her body still has physical needs. dreams can only help the body meet some of these needs in a way acceptable to her mind. < / p >< p >A girl dreamt that her mother raped her, and the psychiatrist asked her what had happened the day before. She said that when she was having a good time with her children during the day, her mother suddenly ordered her not to play but to sweep the floor. She was angry that her mother forced her to obey her mother's point of view and will. The girl dreamt that her mother raped herself, which actually meant that the other person 'forced herself to obey the other person's will'. If you walk into the temple of esoteric Buddhism, you may be surprised to find many statues of men and women having sex, but this statue is not an expressive art, but an expression of religious ideas. Men represent wisdom, women represent compassion, and the image of sexual intercourse between men and women represents: only when combined with compassion can real achievements be achieved. < / p >< p >it can be seen that on the surface it is not sex but in fact it is sex. This is a sexual dream. On the surface, it's sex, but in fact it's not sex. It's not a sexual dream. < / p >< p >there is another situation: what you dream about on the surface is sex, but it is actually sex, which is also a sexual dream. It's called a naked sexual dream. < / p >< p >after knowing what dreams are sexual dreams and what dreams are not sexual dreams, another thing is that they all have sexual dreams, but there are still great differences between men and women, mainly as follows: < / p >< p >one of the differences: the degree of authenticity of the person in the dream is different. < / p >< p >the man in love said to his girlfriend, 'Honey, you are the only one in my dream. I get together with you in my dream every night.' It can be inferred that this is mostly a lie, but if it comes from his girlfriend, it may be true. < / p >< p >A Qiang, a wage earner, is madly in love with his fellow villager Alan. Ah Qiang does not want to eat forbidden fruit all the time, but Alan is very conservative, and it is difficult for him to take half a step. After each date, Ah Qiang is still thinking about it. Before he goes to sleep, he tries to figure it out and try to have a meeting in Alan's dream so that he can split the iceberg. With a little honey, a little obscenity, A Qiang went to sleep, and there were really women having sex with him in the haze. However, it is a pity that those women are never the sweethearts they miss so much, but irrelevant women, not the half-old Xu Niang who sells soda in the small shop in front of the factory, the ugly goblin in the TV series Journey to the West, and sometimes even an old woman in her own country. < / p >< p >psychologists have noticed a strange phenomenon that men dream with other women who have nothing to do with them, but rarely their sweethearts. For women, dreams at night are more likely to be echoes of daytime reality, especially sexual dreams, which are really 'thinking every day and having dreams at night.' < / p >< p >the second difference is that they have different feelings about dreams. < / p >< p >Women sometimes regard the dream of sexual dreams as a reality and 'make it come true', but in men, this phenomenon is extremely rare. < / p >< p >A Fang works as a helper in my uncle's small shop. One night I stayed in the store and watched the store. In the middle of the night, I suddenly called my mother and complained that I had drunk the ecstasy put down in my uncle's drink and was vaguely raped by my uncle. The family immediately rushed to the scene and found his uncle who was sleeping soundly in the house next door. The uncle shouted that he was wronged, but Ah Fang insisted. The family was in a dilemma. The old uncle was over 50 years old, simple and honest. It was hard to believe that he would do such an injurious thing, but his daughter did not feel deliberately slandered. Moreover, 'the ugliness of the family should not be made public', so it had no choice but to put an end to it. This kind of thing still happened from time to time, and strangely enough, several times, my uncle was not at the scene, and there was no time to 'commit a crime' at all. So the family suspected that A Fang was a 'nymphomaniac.' A Fang felt very aggrieved and even thought of committing suicide. After a detailed examination of Ah Fang, he ruled out the possibility of hallucinations, not to mention 'nymphomaniac.' The initial suspicion is that the dream is 'made real'. < / p >< p >Women like Ah Fang who treat dreams as reality are seen from time to time in real life. Psychologists believe that this may be because women are more likely to mix nighttime dreams and daytime reality with each other. Clinically, it has been found that some women with hysterical and neurotic personalities are more likely to have this kind of echo, and they are extremely powerful, and sometimes they can even 'make a fake come true'. But in the case of men, this phenomenon is extremely rare. < / p >< p >the third difference: the clarity of dreams is different. < / p >< p >A young man who is like a jade can have lifelike sexual dreams, while virgins in a spring machine can only dream of hazy sex scenes. < / p >< p >after puberty, the vast majority of men have sexual dreams and wet dreams. Although the dreamer has never touched a female carcass, they can still experience real and lifelike sex scenes in their dreams. On the other hand, for women, it is difficult for virgins with spring machines to get a clearer dream. Most of their dreams are vague and messy, which is far from the reality of sex in real life. Only women who have a certain experience of sex will have a real and clear dream of sexual intercourse. < / p >< p >the fourth difference: the degree of satisfaction of desire is different. < / p >< p >Men's sexual dreams can vent sexual repression, while women's sexual dreams can not relieve their desires. < / p >< p >psychologists have found that single men often have a 'sense of holding semen' as if semen cannot be released, and this 'feeling of holding semen' is significantly alleviated after each wet dream. Moreover, the more erotic the sexual dream is and the more vivid the dream is, the greater the physical excitement will be. after waking up, the 'sense of holding back essence' will be reduced more significantly, and even feel calm. This is because the repressed sexual desire is vented and satisfied in the dream through camouflage and distortion, their own lust and psychological conflicts are balanced, and anxiety is alleviated. However, in some women with sexual depression, the self-feeling of sexual depression does not diminish after the sexual dream. Therefore, some psychologists believe that women's sexual dreams do not necessarily play a role in relieving libido as men do, but in vain to express the existence and activities of sexual desire. < / p >

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