< p >< / p >< p >the symbol of sex < / p >< p >sexual dreams sometimes do not show their meaning directly, but use hidden words and symbolic things to express them. < / p >< p >'the trembling rose is like a flame, and it is in the valley where the wind blows gently. The rose turns into a candle, and the flame of the candle is very big, like a rose. ' < / p >< p >'I'm worried that fire is not allowed in the mountains. I seem to see a sign saying' Beware of Mountain Fire '. What am I doing? It's like a birthday, or some kind of holiday? I'm with another person. I can't see who he is, but he seems to be a very familiar person. ' < / p >< p >'sure enough, the fire spread and the fire was raging, but I was not afraid.' < / p >< p >'the scenery is beautiful'. < / p >< p >you may not have thought that this is actually a sexual dream. It is well known that roses symbolize love. And it also symbolizes a woman's physical and sexual impulses in dreams. The wind is the hand that brushes the body, the flame is the sexual desire that burns gradually in the heart. Although the dreamer is a little worried and afraid, her passion burns like a fire and spreads into a hill fire. This is beautiful sex. < / p >< p >this dream can be regarded as a love poem of sex. < / p >< p >here is another example: < / p >< p >I was lying on the bed in the dormitory when a classmate pushed the door (I could recognize him). He was holding a big glass bottle containing a tortoise and an animal that looked like a tortoise. He came up to me, smiled at me, opened the bottle, poured the contents into my washbasin and left. I was a little strange. I began to look at the animals in the basin, but they seemed to be birds. Then I found a small white rabbit on my bed. < / p >< p >I picked it up and found that there were many animals under my bed, first a cat, then a tiger. I also found a big lion lying motionless under my classmate's bed. But the animals under my bed are noisy and noisy. I tried to find the rope and tied them all up, but I couldn't find them. Walking out of the dormitory, I met another classmate of mine. He was eating and had just laid out the dishes when something came up. He said he wanted to go, but he would be right back. Let me take a look at it for him. With that he left in a hurry. I found that although there are many dishes on the table, they are all made of cucumbers. I think it's funny. < / p >< p >the same dream, men and women have different meanings, and different ages have different meanings. I don't know the age and sex of this friend, so it's a little difficult to explain. < / p >< p >but you can assume that if she is a girl. < / p >< p >the turtle is likely to be a sexual symbol, representing male organs. The washbasin is a symbol of women. So 'pour the turtle into the washbasin' is a symbol of sexual behavior. Birds can also symbolize male organs. Cucumbers are the same in shape. < / p >< p >the animals under the bed represent their own instincts, other people's instincts 'lie motionless', while their own 'noisy and noisy', so she hopes to suppress it, and 'binding' means suppression. < / p >< p >this dream means that she feels that men seduce herself sexually, and she can't help herself. To deal with sexual instincts, the way to suppress 'binding' is not good, the good way is to tame these cats, or let yourself focus on other things. Of course, you can also make friends of the opposite sex as adults. < / p >< p >those who pretend to be dreamers are boys. < / p >< p >this dream is still about sex, but those students represent themselves and represent the other side of themselves. < / p >< p >in a word, there are many symbols related to sex. Let's look at the symbols of sex representatives respectively. < / p >< p >first of all, buildings can be representers. Towers, tall buildings and columns are often used to symbolize male genitals, while accessible rooms and caves are often used to symbolize female genitals. Doors and windows often symbolize the opening of the body. And when a person dreams of drilling through a very narrow cave, the meaning is obvious, either birth or sex. When a person dreams of climbing up and down a wall, the wall often symbolizes the human body, entering the door or window represents love. < / p >< p >of course, not all dream buildings are sexual symbols and need specific discrimination. When a building that is a symbol of sex appears in a dream, there are often details to remind you that it is a symbol of sex. For example, there is a picture of the opposite sex in the house, or there are other sexual symbols, and so on. < / p >< p >another example is a gentleman's dream: he takes a walk with his father. I saw a rotunda with an accessory in front of it, which looked a little crooked and connected to a ball. His father asked him what it was for, and he was a little surprised at his father's question, but he explained it to him.... < / p >< p >in this dream, the rotunda is the hip, the accessory building refers to the scrotum, and the ball in front refers to the penis. Although there are no other details to see that the dream is a personal dream, the unique singularity of the building itself is enough to remind you. This is no ordinary building. < / p >< p >for example, a lady dreamed that in a hall, there was a transparent glass basin covered with a big snake. She was afraid that the snake would break the glass and rush out. < / p >< p >Snake is a symbol of male genitalia, and transparent glass pots are naturally condoms. There is no doubt that the hall is a symbol of female genitalia in this dream, because there are snakes in the hall. < / p >< p >Dream fruit is often used as a sex symbol, peaches are used as a symbol of female sex, sometimes on behalf of the buttocks, sometimes on behalf of female breasts, and bananas as a symbol of male sex. < / p >< p >Freud pointed out that all long objects such as sticks, tree trunks and umbrellas can represent male sexual organs. A pistol is also a sexual symbol, especially when a woman dreams that someone is chasing her with a gun. If a man dreams of a pistol, sometimes it is representative, sometimes it only represents a weapon. < / p >< p >you can give several examples: < / p >< p >Ke Yunlu quoted someone's hallucination in a book, which is roughly as follows: Pangu is a banana tree, which only sees the trunk and is pink. Some white fog came out of it, and the voiceover said, this is the vitality. The vitality flows to a place where it condenses to form a substance. < / p >< p >obviously this is a sexual symbol. Why is the plantain tree pink? It's very simple, it's made up of meat, it's just a symbol of male genitalia. White fog or vital energy is a symbol of semen. The process of opening the land in Pangu is the sexual process. < / p >< p >A woman dreamt that there was a door by the toilet. She entered through the door and found that 'Paradise' was written inside. There are many trees growing on the roadside of this paradise. There are birds singing on the trees. The birds are fake birds and toy birds. She is very happy. < / p >< p >this dream example can also be seen as a sexual dream, the small door and the inner paradise naturally refer to the female sexual apparatus. The tree in heaven refers to the male sexual apparatus, and the bird is also the symbol of the sexual apparatus. < / p >< p >there is also a dream of a female employee: < / p >< p >she dreamt that she was playing with her colleagues (including men and women) and everyone had a great time. Just then, she suddenly looked up and saw a man standing in the distance looking at them, who was also her colleague. When she found out, she didn't say hello and went on playing, but no one else saw it. Then the man standing in the distance suddenly rushed at them with a knife in his hand. Then everyone scattered and ran away, and she woke up frightened. < / p >< p >this dream actually contains sexual content. In fact, the female clerk must have liked this man and had a secret sexual desire, but she was afraid of this desire, so she was chased by a man with a knife in her dream. < / p >< p >there is another dream example in which a lady dreamed of a strange tree with no leaves and a black trunk. She was afraid that the tree would fall. < / p >< p >trees that symbolize male genitalia tend to have no leaves. Afraid of the fall of the tree, perhaps because of his poor sexual ability, perhaps because he is afraid that he will make her pregnant. < / p >< p >when using knives, guns and spears to symbolize male sexual organs, boxes, cabinets and handbags can represent female sexual organs. Ships and aircraft cabins can also be represented. Locking the door and locker symbolizes the protection of chastity, while the key can be used as a symbol of the male sex organ. In addition, hats and ties can also be used as symbols of the male sex apparatus. A tie is often used as a sexual symbol on the one hand because of its shape, on the other hand, it is usually exclusive to men. < / p >The < p >bridge can also be used as a sexual symbol, perhaps because the male genitalia is also a bridge. It connects two people together. Trees can represent both male and female sex organs. It should also be pointed out that rivers in the scenery often have sexual meanings. < / p >< p >A poet once used the term 'thick black forest' to allude to the private parts of a woman's body. Use spring water to symbolize female secretions. Freud quoted such a dream example in his interpretation of Dreams. < / p >< p >'when someone broke into the house, she was so scared that she shouted for the police. But she climbed the steps with two tramps and slipped into the church. There is a mountain behind the church, covered with thick forests. The policeman wore a helmet, a bronze collar, a cloak and a brown beard, and the two tramps followed the policeman quietly. In front of the church there is a path stretching up the hill. Grass and bushes grow on both sides of it, and it grows more and more luxuriantly, and it becomes an ordinary forest at the top of the mountain. ' < / p >< p >this example is full of sexual symbols. Churches, hills, forests, shrubs, grass, stairs, and the police and two tramps-it should be easy to guess what the three of them symbolize-male sexual organs. Sometimes people can also symbolize male sexual organs. < / p >< p >flowers, naturally, often denote female genitals. Some people once called the female genitalia 'Duoer', so picking and watering flowers can be regarded as a symbol of sex. In ancient times, some people called obscene thieves as flower-picking thieves. Indians use the lotus as a symbol of the female genitalia. < / p >< p >A girl dreamt that she put a bouquet of flowers in the center, surrounded by a circle of grass, she felt very happy. < / p >< p >this can also be seen as a personality dream. Another common sexual dream is swimming. Swimming is very common, and most of it shows sex. < / p >< p >someone dreams of swimming in a pile of plastic balls played by children and is very happy. Swimming in a non-aqueous environment often represents emotionless sex. This shows that this person has had sexual experience recently, with a person he does not love, and his attitude is just a game-like attitude. < / p >< p >head, hands, feet and other limbs can also be used as a symbol of male sex. A boy told the dream interpreter about one of his dreams. He said that he often had the same kind of dreams, and he was worried because he always dreamt that his arms and legs had been cut off. What was this all about? This is because he is afraid or worried that the rest of his body will be cut or too short. He thought he lacked sexual charm, as if he had been castrated because he thought he was too short. < / p >< p >it is very common in dreams to cut off arms, legs, or even the head to represent castration, and dreams of being castrated are due to a lack of confidence in sexual ability. < / p >< p >there is such a dream: a woman dreamt that she was walking on a road with an airport ahead. It was a little dark, there was nothing on the road, and there was tall grass by the side of the road. Suddenly a man hugged her from behind. She was scared and tried to break free. < / p >< p >she walked past a room and saw a man in a tall hat eating in it. She knew that the man was the captain and she had to get to the airport ahead of her. < / p >< p >at the airport entrance, a male inspector asked her if she had any contraband, but she said no. And the male inspector didn't believe it. He put his stout hand into his small purse, which made her worried that it would be broken. He pulled it out again and again, unexpectedly, he pulled out two huge single beds. < / p >< p >A dream interpreter explains that her intention to go abroad in this dream is a portrayal of her desire for a new life (such as marriage). Going abroad is repeatedly blocked in her dream, and the resistance comes from her subconscious resistance to marriage. Two single beds refer to 'yearning for marriage'. As for whether this explanation is scientific or not, we dare not decide, but we can see that the dream is actually the woman's fear of sex. At the beginning of the dream, she was assaulted by a man alone at night; later, the male inspector put the 'stout hand' directly into the purse, and it was the 'small purse' emphasized in her dream (the purse is a symbol of female sex). This behavior directly reflects her fear of sex, fear that sex will harm her body, that is, 'the purse will be broken by him'. < / p >< p >in this dream, a man's stout hands are used as sexual organs. < / p >< p >in ancient China, there was also an observation of the symbolism of sexual organs in Zhanmeng. For example, 'when you dream of something new, women like it.' Fish is a kind of fishing tool, which is used to symbolize female sexual organs. 'fish' can be caught with it, and fish can symbolize male sexual organs. < / p >< p >'the wheel axle is a couple, the dream of the wheel axle is also the matter of the couple.' the axle of the car is to be inserted into the hole in the middle of the wheel, which is an obvious sexual symbol. < / p >< p >the origin of Wushan cloud and rain also benefits from the dream of sex and sexual symbolism. The king of Chu dreamed of having a party with the goddess in Wushan, and then the goddess told him that she turned into a cloud in the morning and rain at night. Since then, the word 'cloud and rain' has been used as a secret term for sexual behavior, but in fact, the image of 'rain' is indeed a symbol of sex. < / p >< p >the symbol of temporality can appear as different symbols many times. Look at the following young man's dream: < / p >< p >I dreamed of a swimming pool. The pool was full of women, and there was only one man, playing with the girl by the edge of the pool, pushing the girl into the water, and I felt like I was standing on the roof watching them swim and that man was me. It was dark at night, and there were wild cats calling for spring and fighting. I took a submachine gun and searched the cotton field. There are many women in the field. They are picking cotton. There are two kinds of bullets in my gun, one is red, the other is green. See one and hit one. I think red bullets are dead, green bullets are stimulating, stimulating sexual energy. I know very well who red bullets hit and who green bullets hit. < / p >< p >the pistols, bullets, swimming pools and feral cats in this dream are all typical sexual symbols. The 'cotton' in the dream is also a sexual symbol related to women's breasts. < / p >< p >there are both sexual symbols and naked sex in some dreams, which are intertwined. A man talked about one of his dreams: < / p >< p >I dreamt that I was chasing a girl back and forth on a spiral ladder, and finally I caught up with her and had sex with her. < / p >< p >in front of this dream is a more hidden sexual symbol: climbing the stairs, but at the back it becomes a naked sexual dream. < / p >< p >this kind of dream is formed because in the process of dreaming, the sexual impulse becomes so strong that symbolism is no longer enough to express sexual desire, so we have to use a more direct way-dream sex and wet dreams. < / p >< p >about sexual symbolism, the last thing to say is: < / p >< p >if we describe all dreams that contain the above symbols as sexual dreams, it seems a bit general. In the room is sex, outside to see the scenery or sex, all sharp protruding like a symbol of male sex, all hollow like a symbol of female sex. In fact, all these symbols may not be symbolic. We must be careful to judge whether it is representative in a specific dream and not to jump to conclusions. Some dreams are completely sexual symbols at first glance, but in fact they are not. < / p >< p >one of the reasons why children have nightmares is that they lack a clear distinction between reality and fiction, and they often move horror scenes from movies or storybooks into their own spiritual theatres; and for some special experiences in real life, will also be unable to understand, and play up the color of horror. For example, a child's dream is as follows: < / p >< p >'I am walking along an alley with daisies on both sides of the road. Everything in the dream was in a stiff state of terror, trembling like a gas lamp, the sky was about to thunder, everything was shrouded in an ominous sign, and I knew something terrible was about to happen. So an unimaginable catastrophe came, and everything swelled up, and then it all went through a little incredible space and came out from the other end-- the moment I was most afraid of was when everything swelled up. ' < / p >< p >on the face of it, it seems to be the fantasy product of children's sexual desire, 'a stick', 'everything expands' symbolizes an erect penis, 'through a small incredible space' symbolizes entering the vagina. But at the age of one and a half, the child ate something he should not have eaten so randomly that he could no longer spit it out, so he finally had to ask a doctor to lavage his stomach. After that, he became very ill and did the above-mentioned nightmares. This association clearly shows that the 'stick' symbolizes the gastric lavage tube inserted into his throat, and the 'trembling daisy' was inserted into the stomach tube, and his mood was 'trembling like the flames of a gas lamp', knowing that something terrible was going to happen. Then the stomach tube reached into his throat and esophagus. 'everything expands'through a small, incredible space'. < / p >< p >this can be said to be a 'reproduction' of a child's incomprehensible but terrifying experience of gastric lavage. It is presented symbolically in a dream and vividly shows a child's concept of certain problems. < / p >< p >it can be seen that a dream that looks like a symbolic dream is not necessarily a sexual dream. < / p >< p >however, we must also see that the symbol of dream sex does appear more frequently. The reason is very simple, because sex life is indeed an important part of people's daily life, is the normal physical needs of people. Due to the restraint of moral concepts, sexual thoughts are often suppressed during the day, so they are often reflected in dreams. < / p >In short, we should have a healthy attitude towards sexual dreams, that is to say, we should establish a healthy concept of sex for ourselves. Because sex is not dirty or evil, it is a normal physical and mental need. Therefore, the sexual symbol in the dream is not obscene, sinful or immoral. Through dreams, we can understand our psychology at that time and adjust our psychology. < / p >

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